Erotic fantasy, a means to
In relation to sexuality, fantasy, play and eroticism in general, serve as substitutes for the same desire and sexual practice, it is impossible to have sex, desire or fall in love every five minutes or whenever you feel like. Also as we entrench resources as sexual beings, provided that the fantasy does not occur in a moral context repressor, in which case rather exercise the role of other potential relief of the individual.
Obviously, this individual, erotic fantasy serves to 'catch up' to help get excited, alone or in pairs. And when there is no partner 'by hand', serves to mentally rehearse potential experiences that later, following a real sexual encounter may thus successfully lived more and more self-confidence / a. Physiologically are a powerful resource for feedback between mind and brain, sometimes resulting product of this hormonal discharges, sometimes picking up external stimuli, re-creating and pouring the brain to elicit such hormones. This is transmitted to the individual the feeling that it is time for sex, even for complacency, and it is the most often accompanied by erotic fantasies-about 90% of adolescents of both sexes have erotic fantasies during this practice.
Better without any moral pressure.
When frequently, balanced, uninhibited and unhindered or repression alternating these mechanisms are at the level of brain-thought-hormones, the person will have the potential to be recognized as a sexual being. On the surface, this is reflected in both men and women, during their everyday daily activities, they can fantasize about many times while doing all sorts of activities, especially as more routine work, drive, talk on the phone, showering, walk ... even having sex with a partner. But when the brain is not prepared or trained for it, any erotic stimulus, even implemented in the same genitals will not feel sexual pleasure.
Morality, values education and received, should also allow the flow of these messages-hormonal brain-mind, not see this as something subversive, a danger of dissolution of its norms, values and customs, as has happened in the past and continues still occurring in many parts. In advanced societies this has evolved over the last century, especially if we focus on women. Until recent decades, and still today, many women were not recognized at all as sexual beings and sexual, with full capacity for the erotic gaze and motivation due to social conditioning. This led them to confuse or redirect their sexual fantasies and romantic fantasies, and in fact makes only 30 or 40 years, when asked, many of them did not recognize their own erotic fantasies as such. The men and society generally believed that women had no sexual thoughts or need them, much less perverse nature or twisted. Fortunately, they now have so many thoughts, desires or sexual fantasies as men. And not only is assuming they are completely normal, but are healthy as they can enhance or make more satisfying his own experience, sensory and affective sexual experience.
How fantasizes our libido.
que_fantaseamos.jpg What determines this or that issue in a sexual fantasy? Definitely the most weight in their development experiences or feelings are collected from an early age, even before puberty and, depending on their strength, hence the fantasies that arise can become recurrent throughout the life of person. Second is the influence of everyday aconteciminentos and interpersonal relationships, including those details that a conscious seem to have neglected. Generally we can not change what frustrates us and excites us sexually, once a theme or motive "print" on our minds as sexual or erotic reappear many times thereafter. While the rational mind dominates the waking state, both the state of dream or fantasize as sleep itself recover from the unconscious that has earned it the details of everyday life full of symbolism and incorporate them into their preparations. The unconscious mind does when it is expressed mainly in the realm of the symbolic / emotional.
In relation to sexuality, fantasy, play and eroticism in general, serve as substitutes for the same desire and sexual practice, it is impossible to have sex, desire or fall in love every five minutes or whenever you feel like. Also as we entrench resources as sexual beings, provided that the fantasy does not occur in a moral context repressor, in which case rather exercise the role of other potential relief of the individual.
Obviously, this individual, erotic fantasy serves to 'catch up' to help get excited, alone or in pairs. And when there is no partner 'by hand', serves to mentally rehearse potential experiences that later, following a real sexual encounter may thus successfully lived more and more self-confidence / a. Physiologically are a powerful resource for feedback between mind and brain, sometimes resulting product of this hormonal discharges, sometimes picking up external stimuli, re-creating and pouring the brain to elicit such hormones. This is transmitted to the individual the feeling that it is time for sex, even for complacency, and it is the most often accompanied by erotic fantasies-about 90% of adolescents of both sexes have erotic fantasies during this practice.
Better without any moral pressure.
When frequently, balanced, uninhibited and unhindered or repression alternating these mechanisms are at the level of brain-thought-hormones, the person will have the potential to be recognized as a sexual being. On the surface, this is reflected in both men and women, during their everyday daily activities, they can fantasize about many times while doing all sorts of activities, especially as more routine work, drive, talk on the phone, showering, walk ... even having sex with a partner. But when the brain is not prepared or trained for it, any erotic stimulus, even implemented in the same genitals will not feel sexual pleasure.
Morality, values education and received, should also allow the flow of these messages-hormonal brain-mind, not see this as something subversive, a danger of dissolution of its norms, values and customs, as has happened in the past and continues still occurring in many parts. In advanced societies this has evolved over the last century, especially if we focus on women. Until recent decades, and still today, many women were not recognized at all as sexual beings and sexual, with full capacity for the erotic gaze and motivation due to social conditioning. This led them to confuse or redirect their sexual fantasies and romantic fantasies, and in fact makes only 30 or 40 years, when asked, many of them did not recognize their own erotic fantasies as such. The men and society generally believed that women had no sexual thoughts or need them, much less perverse nature or twisted. Fortunately, they now have so many thoughts, desires or sexual fantasies as men. And not only is assuming they are completely normal, but are healthy as they can enhance or make more satisfying his own experience, sensory and affective sexual experience.
How fantasizes our libido.
que_fantaseamos.jpg What determines this or that issue in a sexual fantasy? Definitely the most weight in their development experiences or feelings are collected from an early age, even before puberty and, depending on their strength, hence the fantasies that arise can become recurrent throughout the life of person. Second is the influence of everyday aconteciminentos and interpersonal relationships, including those details that a conscious seem to have neglected. Generally we can not change what frustrates us and excites us sexually, once a theme or motive "print" on our minds as sexual or erotic reappear many times thereafter. While the rational mind dominates the waking state, both the state of dream or fantasize as sleep itself recover from the unconscious that has earned it the details of everyday life full of symbolism and incorporate them into their preparations. The unconscious mind does when it is expressed mainly in the realm of the symbolic / emotional.
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